A close friend and I had a conversation last night about reason and emotions. We concluded “We are all a little crazy,” in a healthy way because we can reason albeit being in a disastrous emotional state, we still can logically see the other side of the situation even if we refuse to accept it. We also realized that “sometimes feelings make things worse than they are” and these “feelings get in the way sometimes not always” of moving on and letting go.
Although, it is painful I know I rather feel all of it, good and bad, than close myself from something really great. In the end, we all gain fruitful experiences from all past relationships. These experiences will determine who we are, what we are made of and what course our lives takes on. In my case, it has yet to lead me to that meaningful relationship all human beings yearn for. But I am sure it is not too far from my path now.
We will always remember the memories made, but that does not mean we have to live in the past. Love, Learn, Let go and Move on!